Lovely thought

I received this today in an e-mail from a friend. I thought it contained lovely thoughts, and the last statement is so true....

There comes a point in your life when you realize

who matters,

who never did,

who won't anymore...

and who always will.

So, don't worry about people from your past,

there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

'Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.'

Have a lovely weekend and best wishes to everyone at the Vintage Handmade fair tomorrow.

Lazy Saturday

I couldn't believe it..Saturday morning, all shopping done, house cleaned and washing and ironing done! A day to relax, what a shame it was so wet and horrible outside. So we lit the fire and I settled down to get on with my knitting while keeping warm in front of the fire.....

Looking out of the living room window...oh look at all those leaves that need picking up, what a shame it is too wet :0(

The garden is looking very bare at the moment, I was looking at the gorgeous photos on Sally Anne's blog, and was really envious of the colours of summer.

So while making a nice cup of tea, I gazed at the Cyclamen I have bought to give some colour to the kitchen.

I love these flowers and the colours....can't wait until I can add some Poinsettias to my little indoor garden, I just love them.

My Christmas Cactus has got it's months a bit wrong this year, and already has plenty of blooms, the trouble with this is that by Christmas it will all be over.

I absolutely love the delicate blooms, they remind me of dancing fairies...I know, a vivid imagination!

Nature is wonderful isn't it, when the garden is bare and it is too cold and wet to enjoy the outside anyway, she gives us a beautiful array of wonderous colour that we can enjoy inside where we are mostly forced to spend out time.

Sat back and enjoyed the Rugby...shame England lost! Then the wonderful Merlin, and lastly Strictly come dancing....was anyone else amazed by Cherie Lunghi's legs, fantastic for someone of her age, or any age actually!

....Sunday was not quite so relaxing. No 2 was playing rugby 30 miles away, no problem we thought until we found that an accident has closed the motorway and we had to make a detour. A journey of 30 mins ended up in well over an hour sitting in a traffic jam.....what are so many people doing on the road at 10 am on a Sunday morning?! Still his team won by 51 points to 10 so that made up for it. No 1 was refereeing a match much closer to home, and text me at the end of the game to say that it was torrential rain all the way through and he was soaked, so I'm glad No 2 wasn't playing at home. Neither of the lads seems in the slightest bit put of by the wet or cold when it comes to their beloved game, give me the cold to the rain anyday.

I've received an award

I've been sent The Marie Antoinette Award- a real person, a real award! from Jan at Cinnamon Cottage , thank you so much, this is my first one!

Here are the Rules for the Award:

1. Please put the logo on your blog
2. Place a link to the person from whom you received the award
3. Nominate at least 7 or more blogs
4. Put the links of those blogs on your blog
5. Leave a message on their blogs to tell them.

Here is passing this on to the following lovely bloggers - please accept this award even if you do do not wish to pass it on.

Oak moon
AT home with Mel Mel
Suzie Sews
My Little world
Ragged Roses
Speckled Egg
Kitty's Bloggy Bits

Enjoy!

What our kid's don't learn in school

(image courtesy of the bbc)

I'm sure many of you receive the 'funnies' via e-mail from friends. Today I received an e-mail that I really enjoyed, and both having and working with teenagers can identify with the sentiments, some of you may already have seen it. It is meant to be light hearted and a poke at stroppy I know everything teenagers, but some of the points actually did make me think.

"A famous very successful businessman gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talked about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1 : Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2: The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3: You will NOT make £60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a company car until you earn both.

Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. (I'm sure some youngsters get a very sharp shock when they speak to employers the way they have been able, through their hands being tied with discipline, to speak to teachers, and are told in no uncertain terms exactly who calls the shots)

Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. (the sooner kids learn that they are responsible for their actions........!)

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you think you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parents generation, try delousing the wardrobe in your own room. (there isn't a money tree at the bottom of the garden, or a fairy who magics dinner on the table, food in the cupboard and clean clothes in the wardrobe)

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. IN some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in the real life. (many schools no longer have sports days as they don't like children feeling inferior, but are still quite happy to aim for academia - I find this very sad, many children who are not academic are good at sport and this has taken away their chance to shine, so what if the grade A student always comes last in the 100m - tough you can't have everything, and to take away the competitive sports days doesn't allow the sporting kids to shine....)

Rule 9: Life is not divided into terms. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that in you own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In the real world people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

90 years

11th November 1918

The Soldier (War Sonnets No. 5)

If I should die, think only this of me:
That there's some corner of a foreign field
That is for ever England. There shall be
In that rich earth a richer dust concealed;
A dust whom England bore, shaped, made aware,
Gave, once her flowers to love, her ways to roam,
A body of England's, breathing English air,
Washed by the rivers, blessed by the suns of home.
And think, this heart, all evil shed away,
A pulse in the eternal mind, no less
Gives somewhere back the thoughts by England given;
Her sights and sounds; dreams happy as her day;
And laughter, learnt of friends; and gentleness,
In hearts a peace, under an English heaven.

Rupert Brooke Dymock Poet (1887-1915)

Convenience v Organisation

I've been thinking lately about our 24/7 shopping culture, which is supposed to give us more time....but does it?

When I was growing up shops were open Monday - Saturday 9-5:30, if you ran out of anything outside of these times you either tried to borrow from a neighbour or went without. It made people far more organised, they planned for what they needed and most homes had a shopping list somewhere in the kitchen to put down things that had run out or was needed for the next week, so that they wouldn't be forgotten on the trip to the shops, which tended to be daily or at least a few times a week to the local shops, not many women with children worked in the 60s and 70s.

When I got married in the mid 80's (I was a young bride!) supermarkets tended to be open until 8pm but still no shops opened on a Sunday. You still had to be a bit organised.....no nipping to the shops when you find that you have run out of toilet rolls at 10 in the evening, and everyone had Sunday together.

By the early 90's shops were open on a Sunday, so what should be a relaxing day could now be spent wandering round the shops.

Now we have supermarkets open 24 hours a day and most shops now open on a Sunday, we don't need to be organised, we can buy whatever we want whenever we want it, Who needs to have a shopping list in the kitchen when you can just nip into the supermarket or all night attachment to garages if we run out.

Over the past 18 months, I have had to look closely about the way that I shop and become more organised. My employer has moved premises, instead of being within a 2 minute walk to town I am now based about a 20 minute walk away. Then for the last 6 months there have been major roadworks on the road that leads into the city, adding about an hour each way to a trip that should take 15 minutes.

Because of this I don't just pop into town on a daily basis in my lunch break to purchase things that we have forgotten, I go in when I have a list of things I need and in actual fact have only walked into town about a dozen times since we moved. I have also rediscovered a shopping list, I have a magnetic pad on the fridge and we write things down as they run out, everyone has learned that if it isn't on the list it doesn't get purchased, no telling me the day before a cookery lesson at school that there are some vital ingredients needed as they just won't be bought....a detention soon focused the mind into making sure Mum knows the week before what is needed! Also because of the queues, I my occasional use of internet food shopping has become a regular event.

Despite refusing to sit in queues of traffic to get to the big shops we are all still clothed, fed and watered. I have continued to shop locally for my fresh food, and have when we do need anything extra used the local market towns. I have become more organised, making lists of things we need and pre-planning for things like birthdays so that I get cards or whatever I need in plenty of time.

Guess what....instead of struggling with not using the convenience of round the clock opening hours, I have actually found that I have more time. I make plan, make lists and think about what we need...if we run out we do without until the next big shop, or a few items warrant a lunchtime hike into town. I still work a way out of town, but the road is now opened, but I will not be going back to my old ways. It seems to me that by the very nature of stores being open longer for our convenience to give us more time, it is actually having the opposite effect in many cases, we don't plan because we can buy anytime, but being able to do this is cutting into our free time and unless you live within walking distance of shops is costing you fuel and impacting on the environment, and unless you are a better shopper than me money as we rarely come out with just the 1 thing we went in for.

So give me a bit of organisation any day if it gives me back my free time.

Lest we forget

A Poignant story from the Gloucester Citizen newspaper for remembrance Sunday

One Cotswold village will remember the lost Souls who fought and died for their country.
For more than 80 years the story of five brothers called Souls from Great Rissington near Bourton-on-the Water was relatively unknown.

But after being brought to the fore in a series of books and television documentaries, the five heroes became much more than just names on a war memorial.
William and Annie Souls had six sons and three daughters. The five boys who were old enough gave up their farm jobs to fight in the war – but none of them returned.
Twins Alfred and Arthur were both killed in 1918 at the age of 30, five days apart. Alfred died in Flanders and Arthur in France.

Their brothers, Albert and Walter, had already fallen two years earlier. Albert was killed in France in March 1916 at the age of 21. The following day, Walter was wounded on the Somme and died at a hospital in Rouen five months later, aged 24.
The fifth brother, Frederick, went missing in action in France in 1916, aged 30.
His body was never found but his mother kept a candle burning in the cottage window in the hope he might return.
The dreadful news that all five brothers were feared dead was first reported in the Cheltenham Chronicle and Graphic on June 8, 1918.
Under the headline “A Cotswold Family Of Heroes” were photographs of the five young men in uniform.
“Few parents could have had a more grievous blow than Mr and Mrs Souls of Great Rissington, Bourton-on-the-Water,” the report said.
Annie Souls received a shilling for each dead son and a letter from the Prime Minister, Herbert Asquith. But the grief-stricken mother would never stand for the singing of God Save The King because she blamed the monarch for her sons’ deaths.

Thrifty shopping tip

picture courtesy of google

I thought I'd pass on a thrifty shopping tip to anyone who was interested. In one of my monthly magazines they mentioned the website mysupermarket.co.uk which they said could help you save money on your on-line shopping. As I've mentioned in a previous post I do as much of my shopping as I can locally but there are still things that I have to buy from the supermarket, although I do this on line so that I don't have to visit myself.

Well, getting back to the tip, when you log in to my supermarket you are asked to choose your favoured supermarket out of Tesco, Sainsbury's, Asda and Waitrose, you must already be registered with them, and then you shop as you would normally on the supermarkets website - you can download your usuals if you have shopped with the supermarket before. All the while the clever website tells you how much your shopping would be costing at the other stores - you have the option of changing your store if you find that one of the other's comes out cheaper overall. The site has a tab that gives you the option to choose items to swap for cheaper alternatives, beit another brand or special offers on other sizes etc, and keeps a total of how much you can save if you swap. Another tab allows you to swap for lower calorie food if you wish.

After shopping from my usuals list I was pleased to see that Sainsbury's, my usual supermarket, was actually the cheapest for my basket (prices ranged from £120 to £165 for the same basket!) - obviously different people may find different stores cheaper depending on what they bought. I was also thrilled through some swaps to be able to save £15.64 on my £120 shop, so over the course of a year this could amount to around £180....just think what you could buy with that! When it is time to buy you are directed to your store's secure site, so it is just as if you shopped directly with them, except someone else has done all of the searching for the savings for you.

I will definitely be shopping via this site again.

Busy Busy Busy

When I got up yesterday, it was a typical autumnal morning, and the plant in our garden looked like it had been visited by the crystal fairy overnight Each of the leaves had tiny water drops frozen onto it, that looked like it had been covered in shiny crytals.

With rain forecast for later in the day, we decided that today was a perfect day to make some preserves with the bag of crab apples that we had collected the day before.

Halve the crab apples, do not peel or core them, and put them in a heavy pan with 3 cloves per 1kg of apples.

Cover with water, and then bring to the boil.

Turn down the heat and simmer until all of the apples are soft - don't give them a hand to break down by squashing them as this will turn the jelly cloudy.

When all of the apples are soft, strain off the liquid through a jelly bag, or butter muslin.

Measure the liquid and return it to the pan, after emptying the apple pulp (does anyone know what to use the pulp for, I hate just throwing it away but don't know what else to do with it?)

Add 450g of preserving (Jam) sugar per 600ml of liquid, and heat gently, stirring until the sugar has disolved, then boil until the liquid reaches setting point -(when a spoonful dropped onto a cold saucer wrinkles when pushed).

Pour into warmed, sterilised jars and seal. The picture doesn't do justice to the colour, which is a rich pink.

After helping make the Crab Apple Jelly, No 2 decided that he wanted to make some mini lemon meringue pies. I'd taught him how to make a large pie a couple of weeks ago and he has been making it regularly since. Funny as he hates cooking at school!

He made the pastry by putting 70z plain flour, and 3 1/2 0z of diced butter into the food processor and mixing until it looked like breadcrumbs, then mixed in 1 beaten egg yolk (keep the white for the meringue), 3 tbsp milk, 1 3/4 oz icing sugar and the grated rind of 1 lemon (you will need the juice later).

When mixed he put it onto a floured board and kneaded it briefly then wrapped and left to rest for 30 mins.

He then rolled out and cut circles to line a deep bun tin, and baked blind at 180oc for 15 mins.

He lowered the heat to 150oc

Whilst the cases were blind baking he started what he finds the fascinating bit. (cloudy cornflour mix turning transluscent, and clear eggs turning opaque, I'm sure there is a scientific explaination but I don't know what it is much to his disgust:-))

He mixed 3 tbsp of cornflour with 10 fl oz of water.

Added the grated rind of 2 lemons

Juiceed the 3 lemons he had so far used and added to the cornflour mix.

Brought to the boil whilst stirring, and as if by magic the cloudy liquid turned a transluscent yellow! (sorry rubbish picture)

He turned down the heat and cooked for another 2 mins stirring constantly. Removed from the heat and left to cool for a couple of minutes, measured out 6 oz of caster sugar, and separated 2 eggs. Added 5 tbsp of the sugar and the beaten yolks to the mixture, mixed well then added to the pastry shells. In a separate bowl he beat the 3 egg whites until stiff then whisked in the remaining sugar. Spread over the tarts and mad into little peaks. Baked for 25-30 mins for the small tarts or 40 mins for a pie.

And you have pudding! If they last that long.

N0 2 now has the bug and has decided to make Rosemary Jelly tomorrow - I just wish the enthusiasm included the washing up!

Why?!

On Friday night our quiet evening was disturbed by what can only be described as a selfish idiot!

Hubby was reading the paper, I was baking, and No1 & No 2 were in their bedrooms listening to music, when there was a load thump thump thump on the front door, so loud that it sounded as though someone was going to break the door down.

I met hubby in the hall as he was opening the front door to see what was going on, and No1 swiftly followed by No 2 quickly appeared. We all ran outside to see a figure disappear around the side of the house....at this point I have to point out that we live down a dead end lane away from the main road in a small village, so not an easy place to come across by chance. Hubby, plus No1 & 2 took off after the idiot and I stood by the gate with my marble rolling pin still in my hand from the baking. Unfortunately, or fortunately for the idiot, who appeared to be a fully grown male, he got away by jumping the fence into the field behind our house, before his pursuers in bare feet or slippers got there, scaring the sheep in the process, and escaping into the darkness.

My question is what on earth possesses someone to go up to a front door, hammer on it and then run away (especially given the location of our house, he couldn't just have been passing)? On this occasion I think the idiot got more of a fright than we did, I'm sure he wasn't expecting two 6ft rugby players and an irate hubby to give chase or for a mad woman with a rolling pin to stand guard over the gate. However it could easily have been a cottage belonging to an old person and can you imagine how frightened they would be especially if they lived alone....! The thing is that if the idiot had been caught or had tried to make his escape via the easy route of the gate and had been given a swift swipe across the arse with a rolling pin for his troubles it would probably have been us who would have been in trouble rather that the imbecile who was out to frighten innocent people in their own home!

Why are some people so selfish!?

Sorry folks, that's my rant over now.
Take care all

I'VE BEEN TAGGED

Well twice actually, by Helen at the crackled horse company and Kim at Oakmoon .
The rules are:

1.Link to the person who tagged you

2.Post the rules on your blog

3.Write 6 random things about yourself

4.Tag 6 people at the end of the post, link to them

5.Let each person know they've been tagged

6.Let tagger know when entry is up

So, here are the 6 random things about me.

1. I designed and my husband built out own home on land he inherited.

2. Both our son's were 60cm (just under 2ft) long when they were born

3. I failed a driving test by following a car the wrong way up a one way street

4. When I got married I had a 20 inch waist - but no longer unfortunately, see No 2 LOL

5. I am terrified of water, deeper than I am tall, so am stuck on our little Island as I won't fly over the water either - looks like my ambition of travelling to New Zealand has hit a hitch then!

6. The Rolling Stones drummer, Charlie Watts, used to live in the next village to me when I was a teenager, so growing up we village kids didn't bat an eyelid when some very famous rockers were seen around the village.

I would like to tag, in no particular order:

Suzie at Suzie Sews

Andrea at Andrea Fays

Trace at In my little World

Diana at Pebbledash

Pipany at Pipany and the Poltisko Memoirs

Sally Ann at Quite a handful


Thanks for taking part, but only if you want to, of course :)

ROOM WITH A VIEW

On getting home from work on Friday, I was met by No 2 son who presented me with a bandaged arm that had been redressed 3 times over the course of the day by the school first aider and had now soaked through yet again - he had falled over running for the school bus badly cutting his elbow and grazing his arm, but had carried on to school, without getting it looked at because he was insisting on playing a house rugby match! I redressed his arm and took him off to casualty to get it looked at, but would you believe it when the doctor took of the dressing it had stopped bleeding! The nurse and Dr were really pleasant, I apologised for what I now saw as wasting their time, but they said that it was absolutely fine and they needed to check for any damaged that might have been done or gravel in the cut - they dressed the cut yet again and off we went......just the way to start the weekend!

When we got home I was pleased to see that a neighbouring farmer has put a few of his sheep back into the field behind our house.

Look at the view I'm getting again from our kitchen window!

A lovely distraction whilst I'm doing the washing up.

The sheep are so tame that they will come and 'talk' to you if you have the window open or go to the fence to see them, after they have been in for a week or so they get used to the sound of our car and will come to the fence to greet us when they hear it. (Sorry the picture below is a bit fuzzy)

Thank you all for your comments on my last posting about buying local. It seems there are like minded people across both hemispheres who are passionate about supporting local suppliers where they can. Listening to the doom and gloom on the news this morning, about how we are all running low on oil stocks and will need to look at alternatives, we are already ahead of the game, buying straight from producers that are as near as possible to where we live and the more we buy the more producers there will be and the prices may become affordable to more people - a positive perpetuating circle for once.

Buy Local

Like most other people I do some of my shopping at the supermarket, but try whenever possible to use the home delivery service -less temptation to deviate from my shopping list, and more eco friendly as one vehicle is delivering to many homes in the area rather than individual car journeys, they also if I'm honest frustrate me...why do I need to look through 25 different types of baked beans when I want something to go on our toast? I was discussing shopping habits with a friend recently, yes I know I have such riveting conversations, and realised how lucky I am with the shops that I have locally, not to mention brilliant farmers markets in my 4 nearest towns!

My local post office/village store, sells home made cakes, quiches, jams and marmalades, the 3 fruit above is one of no 2 son's favourites and just as nice as any expensive brand you can buy. Coming up to Christmas, they also make Christmas cakes and puddings, and I always buy their home made pickles to top up those I've made myself.

I treated us to one of their homemade apple cakes when I was last in, I normally make them myself but just couldn't face baking that night.

A swarm of locusts , AKA my teenage sons, seem to have taken over the kitchen as by bedtime this was all that was left!

It looks like I'm going to have to get baking to keep up, we have plenty of apples on the trees in the garden, and my hens are still laying at the moment. They usually have a rest for a couple of months, and I don't think that will be far away.

I use my local village shops every week. I have milk from the dairy at one, veg from another, and meat from the butchers and bread from the bakers in another. I know that I am very luck that in my village and the 2 neighbouring ones I have such a choice. I work in the town and it would be easy for me to pop into the supermarket to buy what I need, but I firmly believe in supporting the local shops and suppliers whenever I can.

In the lastest round of Post Office closures we were incredibly lucky that none of our PO's shut, if they had I think that the village shops would struggle to keep going. During the floods last summer the roads out of the villages were blocked, necessitating a 40 mile trip each way along the motorway if you wanted to get into town, rather than the usual 6, and the number of people using the village stores increased no-end. These people were happy for the shop owners to do this trip for them to save them the hassle, yet as soon as the road opened they deserted the local shops again, seemingly forgetting that without daily customers they may not be around if we are unluckly enough to get marooned again. The little shops can never totally replace a trip to the supermarket, but you can get much of what you want, and more importantly the owners will get things in especially for you. When I was icing my Christmas cake last year, they didn't have any glycerine so let me use some of theirs. It is also a more friendly environment, not rushed, which allows small children to learn how to pay for shopping, you regularly see small children counting out their pocket money to buy fruit or sweets, or paying for their mummy's shopping without being pressured to hurry up.....can you imagine that in Tesco!

So lets back the local shops, and encourage others to do the same...as the saying goes "use them or lose them".

Wow what service!

Just had to give an update on my Amazon order.....and no I don't have shares in the company given the plugs I have given them in my last two posts.

When my parcel was delivered, the two ends of the package were undone, and on checking the contents I found that a small book was missing. I e-mailed Amazon last night to let them know, and early this morning received an e-mail to apologise for the missing item and to say that a replacement had been dispatched, now how is that for service!

The last time I contacted them was when my son's playstation broke, just days within the end of 12 month warrantly period, again a new one was dispatched the next day, along with a label so that I didn't have to pay return postage for the broken one

Well done folks and I think you could teach a few companies a thing or two about how to treat their customers. Amazon doesn't have anywhere for customers to post comments, so thought I would publish my thanks via my blog.

Amazing Amazon Part 2

Well I've thoroughly enjoyed trawling through my books, so can now share my other purchases with you...I have to say Amazon are wonderful, from when you order you know exactly where your parcel is at any moment, great for impatient people like me, and if you ever have to contact their customer service dept because of a problem they are the most helpful people I have come across!
Anyway back to my books;

I have seen Ginny's book featured on a number of blogs and just had to buy a copy for myself, it arrived with my Christmas books, and I am not disappointed.

I just love this peg bag - I try to line dry our clothes whenever I can, not only does it save money and is kinder to the environment that tumbling, but you can't beat the smell of clothes dried in the fresh air can you? My pegs are currently housed in a plastic container that has definitely seen better days, so this is just the thing to replace it.

More ideas for Christmas stockings, you can never have too many can you, they make great wrappings for presents as well as decorations dotted around the house.

Whilst I was looking for Nigella's christmas book I found the latest from Sarah Raven. A lovely mix of recipes and floral offerings.

I just love this wreath, a sort of hedgerow wreath I think.

And after collecting your flowers, what better than cream cakes?

Food and books, there seems to be a theme going on in my posts at the moment!

Don't forget the latest series from River Cottage starts tonight at 8pm on channel 4, I just love these programmes.

Amazing Amazon Part 1

When I checked out Karon's wonderful blog this morning, I saw that she had just the latest culinary offering from Nigella, I had just ordered a copy for myself and couldn't wait for it to arrive. Amazon delivered right on queue, and when I got home from work I was greated by a lovely parcel, with my christmas books inside.

The latest Nigella creation of course, I just love the way she writes, she makes you feel like you have a chatty friend encourging you in the kitchen.

This lovely pecan pie stood out for me, we all love pecans, so this will definitely be on the make list.

and these lovely brownies, just right with a cup of tea after the rigours of christmas preparation.

Next out of the box was this wonderful follow up to A taste of organic life brilliant and easy ideas for a sustainable, home made christmas. Again Sheherazade (isn't that a beautiful name, it was on my list if we'd had a girl!) Goldsmith writes in such a friendly, easygoing way that it instills confidence in the readers.

Instructions for a lovely rustic hessian stocking.

Or some home baked walnut bread, just right straight out of the oven, with a mixture of cheeses and a cup of hot chocolate, when you have been out in the garden in the frost

Ideas for a homemade food hamper, plus lots of others.

And some wonderful floral table decoration ideas, these are great autumnal decorations as well as for your Christmas table.

I particularly like the box filled withe hellebores, always a lovely sight in the middle of winter.

I will post details of the rest of my parcel later, I'm off now to get my nose stuck into to my books so might surface again by morning!

Before I go, there is a new member who has just joined the blogging community. Check out Helen she is also looking for others to join her in a craft fair in Tunbridge Wells in December, so if anyone is interested she will welcome you.

INSPIRATION

Today I wandered into town in my lunch break for the first time in weeks. I have to say I dislike major or even minor towns intensely, preferring to use the local village shops or the nearby market towns. Still today I ventured into the main shopping area and dropped in at M & S, and was rewarded for my effort by finding a new book - and of course I couldn't walk away without adding it to my ever growing collection, with the excuse that I needed to buy it for inspiration for Christmas gifts. I have previously said that I am going to make all of my gifts this year instead of buying them.....does buying the books with recipes or instructions count as cheating I wonder? It has lovely easy truffle recipes to make - a gift to myself perhaps ;)

And some wonderful butter biscuits - to my colleague Lyn who is thinking of starting her own grumpy old woman blog, I'll bring some in when to share when you design your blog!

Some chocolate drizzled buttermilk biscuits

And some biccies for Rover!

A treat for the adults, some Brandied Cherries

or some raspberry mint vinegar - ooh a wonder taste of summer :)

or even home made pesto.

Plus loads of other ideas - can't wait to get started, roll on half term.

And lastly a quote for today.

Never judge a man 'til you've walked a mile in his moccasins.

- native american proverb